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I've been together with my girlfriend for about 5 months, and last night was the first time we had sex. I'm far from a virgin, and she was a virgin (or so everyone thought) which didn't bother me. The thing is, though, is that she's extremely hot/beautiful, and she's popular, and I know it's idiotic to point that out, but they're the ones that have lots of opportunity for sex, so to me it seemed strange(not saying that hot/beautiful, popular girls can't be virgins, just saying). Well, right before I penetrated her, she told me she wasn't a virgin. I mean I don't care, virgin or not, I still love her (and she didn't lie to me, as I didn't ask her, other people have, though), but it was kind of strange. She said that if I told anyone I would regret it(she was playing around, but she meant it) I was just like "do you think I care about that, I love you it doesn't matter to me" yada yada, well we went on with it, and she felt (sorry TMI) like a virgin without the blood and having to be extremely gentle, but I could definitely tell she wasn't one, you know what I mean? Like she knew what she was doing. After we were finished, we were going to go again, but then I was like "what would happen if I told people" and she was like "if you do I won't have sex with you again" and I KIDDINGLY said well I can do without sex, I did for 5 months, and she said something like "you haven't seen me try yet" and then she said "and if for some reason we break up, and you tell someone, I will embarrass the fuck out of you, I'm not even kidding" She got really pissed because I kind of made it seem like I was going to tell someone. The fact that she had sex with this guy, which she said was a secret friends with benefits thing that lasted a really long time, and they had sex all the time, and she won't even tell me who he is. I mean I know it's none of my business because that's before we were together, but still...it makes me wonder. I don't know, I'm definitely not going to tell anyone (aside from you all, but that's not the point) but I wonder why she cares...Oh and she said only a few of her close friends know, but if anyone else finds out she will know it was me. I don't know, she got really mean, and she's not even mean, I've never seen her that mean before....
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sosupkthnx
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Talk to her about it.
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Wealthy Hobo
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Maybe she wants to appear pure to make guys want her even more.
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sisof2cnc
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virginity....or not is a private thing.....wee can get touchy about it.
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plumc0la
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She sounds like she cares about her reputation and what others think too much.
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seekingsimplicity
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Just respect her... she lost her virginity to someone who wasnt even special to her, just a friend with benefits. maybe she's worried people will say she's a slut or something.
But even if thats not what she was worried about, it is very personal... and joking about something she fears doesnt seem like the best idea. SHe'll get over it though, just dont push on the subject.
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runthespread
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She's shady. She's one of those who can't live with themselves and what they do, closet slut. Sorry.
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samantharosekay
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crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyy woman.
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She sounds like she cares about her reputation and what others think too much. 
