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 Replies: 8 — Last Post Nov. 10, 2008 12:25pm by bangalore
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Why, why the fuck would he consider coming to see me in college a good idea - even though I've told him I dont want to speak to him, and even though I've TOLD him that I'm already getting enough shit off other students for being gay as it is, without him being all over me in front of them. I can so see myself getting gaybashed at some point this week.. I can just tell it's gonna happen. And it's his fucking fault. None of this would have happened if he hadn't decided to "do what's best for me" and go around telling everyone about my sexuality, even though it's CLEARLY going to result in so many bad things happening to me. And now he's kicking off on me, saying that "if I'm not open about our relationship then clearly I don't love him". Sure, go ahead, make me feel guilty. To be honest, he's probably right. I probably am too selfish and paranoid, and not caring enough to come out for him. I try to love him enough to come out, but the fear of me being ridiculed, humiliated, outcast and physically abused for the next two years does NOT appeal to me, and I just don't think it's worth me coming out to them when we could just as easily keep our relationship a fucking secret. Then I wouldn't have to put up with all this shit. Christ.  Post edited at 8:43 am on Nov. 10, 2008 by Chasey
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8:35 am on Nov. 10, 2008 | Joined Sep. 2008 | 88 Days Active
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The Fantasy
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Awh god, that sucks. :(
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You are so beautiful, you are the kinda girl,
that has the chemicals, that make me fall in love.
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This is a usual problem in a gay relationship. Especially when one of you is out and proud and the other doesn't wish to tell anyone. And let's be honest, people don't have to know, do they? Although I see where you're coming from and I'd probably do the same in your position apart of me wants just to suggest coming out and facing it. Mainly because it's not your problem. You're happy, right? That's all that matters. Fuck these haters. Plus, if you come out and say 'look, this is who I am' people are more likely to respect you and get used to it. However, it's not fair for your boyfriend to tell everyone for you. Whatever you choose, is your choice, not his. He needs to respect your choice.
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My head keeps saying "no",
But my heart keeps giving in.
So hard to let it go,
When it's there, under my skin.
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crystal 81308
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aww sucks:(
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nadiiasorgente
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Awh,
I wish i could say i know how you feel but i cant
I do know how it feels to know that if people find out about something you will no doubt be made fun of for as long as you can think ahead.
I dont know really what to say. I guess i can just wish you luck and hope for the best :)
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Soultear
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aww thats not good. does he not realise the situation ur in at school? but then again hes probs just coming to see u coz he loves u
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aww thats not good. does he not realise the situation ur in at school? but then again hes probs just coming to see u coz he loves u
