Are you serious??

14 and wanting a kid? How will you be able to do that? How will you be able to pay for it, and take care of it? What about school?

I want lots of animals, but I don't go out and buy a whole bunch because I know I don't have the time or money to do that.

A baby is much worse.

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~That is so pet quality~

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yes ur crazy and immature. if u want something out of life then finish school then u can think about a baby. u will lose ur friends and a chance for an education by getting pregnant now. do u really want to get waken up by a screaming baby every night? do u really want to clean up a baby that just leaked threw its diapers or puked all over u and itself? do u have the money? what would ur mom think? do u want to go around with a big stomach? then after the babies born u have to bring it everywhere with u. think about the labor pains too. those sound really fun

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yes ur crazy and immature. if u want something out of life then finish school then u can think about a baby. u will lose ur friends and a chance for an education by getting pregnant now. do u really want to get waken up by a screaming baby every night? do u really want to clean up a baby that just leaked threw its diapers or puked all over u and itself? do u have the money? what would ur mom think? do u want to go around with a big stomach? then after the babies born u have to bring it everywhere with u. think about the labor pains too. those sound really fun

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The whore has a point

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We live in beautiful world.
Yeah we do.

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Quote: from xoallixs0n at 4:53 pm on Oct. 12, 2008

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i know how you feel. The only reason I'm alive is to be a mom.

 The difference is I'm 19. and even I realize I have to wait.

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that is a narrow way of looking at your life, think of what you could do for yourself and the world?

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I know it's the reason I'm on this earth. I'm not here to be a martyr or anything big. I'm here to raise a child and make their life as best as it can be.

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Linh (blufindr) is one of the sweetest, most sincere
and compassionate people I know.
You all should feel blessed that she has graced LW with her presence.

Yes, it's normal to feel that way. Just wait and let it pass for now, as you already seem to know, by your post. You have plenty of time to have a baby later. Your feelings are probably intensified by having the baby there. Is your bf's baby under his care, or the baby's mum? If it makes you feel better, maybe you can take care of it sometimes (if that's okay with whoever the legal parent is)