I'm usually a pretty cold and keep to your self kind of person but I feel like there is a bond between me and him and he is also one of my few friends. He is the only person I felt is special and shared something with. My parents and family always accuse me of being gay for him because we live together and stuff. And also make rude jokes about it. And I've only been seen with a woman a few times for not very long.

I feel like I can't do any better or find a better person to be around. We have been through extremely rough times and arguments like any relationship should just to be back stronger. It's almost eight years now and my friends and family try to find me that hook up to a family. But I usually never have a shred of interest. I sometimes feel like they deserve an answer and now we can support ourselves just fine. Then again, it's really none of their business.

Good luck; I hope this all works out for you.

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Indescribable.

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You need to expand your experiences, as I can see.

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You could be right. I don't really care about the gender. A nice compatible personality is always great, and that's what we have. I don't get along with most people, in fact I might be strange to most but not him. I guess it's easier for two guys to get along because the mentality is more likely to be the same.

hmm it's just my parents. "Oh when are you going to find that girlfriend and get us some grandchildren". First I believe the world is over populated and the last thing we need it more people. Not to mention the world is becoming a bad place and I wouldn't want my child to be raised in this ever worsening place.

And "Oh you're sick? Kissing your boyfriend too much?" lol it sounds funny but in my shoes it wears on you after awhile. I just want peace and them to leave me alone and eventually accept. Maybe they don't know truly and are just guessing, or in denial. But now we got things set up, a nice house and he just got through college and a new job and I'm working and going to school in a nice location. Overall it's been my best eight years.

Maybe a nice dose of honesty is the best thing here. I can't do any better and wouldn't change a thing for the world. Just let them know whats going on and it's not going to change, that's been tried but didn't feel good to us. Only thing is, I've tried to tell them, but I couldn't couldn't bring myself.

Post edited at 1:07 am on Oct. 11, 2008 by Anonymous