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My girlfriend has herpes
Replies: 21Last Post Oct. 16 3:01am by nik1
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or so she thinks.

Um, im a fairly conservative person, and like, i rly strongly prefer my women to be virgins. My girlfriend (1st and only, together 7 months) has had sex with 3 other guys, one was casually, and was a bit before she got together with me.

I always had a REALLY hard time stomaching that she had sex with this one creep, he kinda took advantage of her. And he has no morals and is filthy. And like, it took me a rly long time to swallow that other guys cocks have been in her and shes enjoyed it because im VERY territorial about my women.

Now i find out he may have given her herpes. I will forever be insulted and belittled by this shit, idk if i can bear it. Its like the ultimate insult to the exclusivity of our relationship, that she's sick with some mans disease, and makes me feel uncomfortable about my views of her.

what should i do? If i really love her what should i want to do?


5:51 pm on Oct. 15, 2008
trivium995


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HERPES!!!!!

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Quote: from trivium995 at 5:52 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

HERPES!!!!!


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Quote: from trivium995 at 5:52 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

HERPES!!!!!

i knew you would come here.


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i got herpes from rape

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be with her,   are you really going to judge someone based on their past?

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kazz


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Ok first things first. Chill the fuck out.

Your girlfriend is a person...she can do what she wants. If you can't stand that she's fucked other guys- DUMP HER BY ALL MEANS! If you find out she has herpes? Dump her or just don't have sex? It seems to me that she's not even worth the risk of contracting it anyway.

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Quote: from return2me at 1:52 am on Oct. 16, 2008

Quote: from trivium995 at 5:52 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

HERPES!!!!!

i knew you would come here.


so did i lol


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Quote: from trivium995 at 5:52 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

HERPES!!!!!
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If you really loved her you'd support her and not begrudge her for her past experiences.
But it sounds to me like SHE isn't your top priority, that being in a relationship with someone pristine and exclusive is.

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I have herpes

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get her tested and i don't even know that would make me so fucking mad but I'm a chick and that is just me. i didn't know that herpes could last 7 months. are you sure that she hasn't been with someone else you know

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I have herpes

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i dont understand why it's gonna make such a difference if she's sick. what? r u just gonna bail out on her and use her sexual activity as a cover! u should be uncomfortable with ur views of her whether she has herpes or not

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Relationships happen. I'm sure she didn't MEAN to get herpes and insult you, but it happened. You can't hate her for making a mistake. She's only human (unless she isn't).

If you truly love her, I'd wait and find out if she actually has herpes before freaking out. And if she does, I would talk to her about what you're future looks like. Decide then whether or not the disease is a big enough deal to break up about. Maybe it is. That would be understandable.

But make sure she has it first.

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