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My girlfriend has herpes
Replies: 21Last Post Oct. 16, 2008 3:01am by nik1
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Glory


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Quote: from Jx2 Anarchy at 5:53 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

be with her, are you really going to judge someone based on their past?

It is worth judging on their past when it has the potential to mess up his future.  It's not a matter of disliking that they have slept with someone, it's a matter of being with someone with a communicable disease.  He is too young to put himself into a situation with a girl that he knows has a disease.

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Quote: from Glory at 6:03 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from Jx2 Anarchy at 5:53 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

be with her,   are you really going to judge someone based on their past?

It is worth judging on their past when it has the potential to mess up his future. It's not a matter of disliking that they have slept with someone, it's a matter of being with someone with a communicable disease. He is too young to put himself into a situation with a girl that he knows has a disease.

And here's where abstinence can rear its ugly head.

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Why would you stay with someone that you know you will never have sex with, in the off chance that you may fall in love with them?  If you know you have no intention of being with them in the long run, why lead them on?

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Quote: from Glory at 8:31 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Why would you stay with someone that you know you will never have sex with, in the off chance that you may fall in love with them? If you know you have no intention of being with them in the long run, why lead them on?

Love and sex don't equate in my book.
But I totally understand your point.

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EWWWWWWW

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What do you mean "IF I really love her what should I want to do"?

Quite frankly I think she deserves better than a judgmental asshole like you and I hope she dumps you.

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Did you know that she had sex with three guys before you started going with her?  If you did then you need to either accept it or get out of it.  Unfortunately this will always be in your mind and it will never go away.  The first argument that comes up you will throw it in her face. This is unfair to her.

Now lets talk about the herpes.  If she contacted it from another guy there is a good chance that she has passed it onto you.  

No one can tell you what to do but unless you can let go of the previous sex and herpes you better get away from her.  


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