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Replies: 9Last Post Oct. 15 9:04pm by ralili
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This is serious to me. Please don't say anything stupid. I am a girl and I have a really good friend that is a guy. He's had a lot of tough times in his life, and they seem to be becoming more often and harder for him to handle. I want to make him happy more than anything. I want him to feel safe and loved. He said he doesn't think he can take it if anything else happens. I want him to be ok...

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Then make sure you keep tabs on him and make him see you care about him.

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okie..
so whats exactly do you need help on.??
making him happy?

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just talk to him and be there for him as much as you can. EVEN if he doesnt want to talk then just sit there next to him quietly. just be there.

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then just be there for him as much as possible and make sure he knows that he has you!

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then keep watching him and as soon as u think he might want to hurt himself then the best thing u can do is be there throgh it all and tell someone

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I hate when I don't say anything though. I feel like he thinks I don't care when I don't say anything back, but I don't know what to say. I am there for him and listen and care, but he needs more... something that will really make him.. happy. I want to get his mind off of stuff. We hang out a lot. He likes to be at my house.

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Quote: from becca101 at 8:58 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

then keep watching him and as soon as u think he might want to hurt himself then the best thing u can do is be there throgh it all and tell someone
He told me he'd never hurt him self even when he wants to... he said he just can't, and I really hope he's right.

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Don't underestimate how much just being a friend is helping.  You'd be surprised... you may feel like you're doing nothing, but in reality, you're doing a great deal just be giving him someone to talk to that he knows listens and cares.

I mean, it's hard to know what to say or what to do... but like you said, you can always help try to get his mind off of things.  You could maybe offer to go out and watch a movie, or just go out to lunch together, or just go out somewhere and do something that could keep his mind off of things (I dunno, go to a park and toss around a frisbee or something).


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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:01 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Don't underestimate how much just being a friend is helping. You'd be surprised... you may feel like you're doing nothing, but in reality, you're doing a great deal just be giving him someone to talk to that he knows listens and cares.

I mean, it's hard to know what to say or what to do... but like you said, you can always help try to get his mind off of things. You could maybe offer to go out and watch a movie, or just go out to lunch together, or just go out somewhere and do something that could keep his mind off of things (I dunno, go to a park and toss around a frisbee or something).


We hang out a lot. I tried to get him to come over today but he didn't feel like it. He ended up calling me though and telling me about some bad news he got today. He calls me a lot just to tell me what's on his mind because he knows I'll listen.

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