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Age Difference (About Parents)
Replies: 34Last Post Oct. 15 11:38pm by whoisabs
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So I saw another age doesn't matter comment, which I agree on, and are living on right now. A little while back I came to you all asking advice about it, and I took it, and I've been in love with her since. But her parents found out, and the parents (mostly dad) are pissed. It isn't supossed to work out, but we can't let go. What do I do.

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how long is the age gap between you two?- despite it you 2 are your own ppl- dont let other ppl control your life.

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basically just say 'screw you' to your parents, lucky for me i won't ever have that problem with my parents since they are 9 years apart

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yea, well depending on the age difference you would have to give your dad the benefit of the doubt because he is older than you, but you need to go with what you think

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I'm 16 and she is 14.

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I'm 16 and she is 14. And thanks for your help.

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my friends parents are 10 years apart and they have been together for over 30 years.

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how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.  

i noe how you feel.

except im 15 and hes alot older

Post edited at 8:59 pm on Oct. 15, 2008 by weezybabyx7

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16 and 14 is nothing.  That's like a junior dating a freshman in high school.  If her parents are pissed, it's because they deem her to be too young to date, not because they think you're some old pedophile trying to get into her pants.

Age difference, on the other hand, does matter, and it matters a lot.  If you two are at very different stages in life, it's going to be difficult to find some common ground.  And by common ground, I don't just mean interests and the like, but how you two define a "serious" relationship, what you two want out of a relationship (such as if one wants to get married and sooner than the other, and one just wants to be together and not worry about marriage for now), one of you going to a university while the other is still in high school (and not about to graduate any time soon either), etc.

But two years is nothing and a perfectly fine age difference.  Age differences only really start getting iffy once they reach four years (if you're younger; more if you're older).


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Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 10:57 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.  

i noe how you feel.

except im 15 and hes alot older



What did your parents say and what did you do.

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Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:03 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 10:57 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.    

 i noe how you feel.  

 except im 15 and hes alot older



What did your parents say and what did you do.

my parents think hes only 17 so they dont really make a big thing out of it. i didnt tell him i was 15 until like after 2 weeks and we couldnt not be with eachother. my parents would flip out if they new he was 20.

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Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 11:09 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:03 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 10:57 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.    

  i noe how you feel.  

  except im 15 and hes alot older


 
 What did your parents say and what did you do.

my parents think hes only 17 so they dont really make a big thing out of it. i didnt tell him i was 15 until like after 2 weeks and we couldnt not be with eachother. my parents would flip out if they new he was 20.



Ya she didht tell me her age until I already feel for her. She wants me to tell her parents I am a year younger than I actually am, but I think they will find out and be furious.

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Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:28 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 11:09 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:03 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 10:57 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.      

   i noe how you feel.    

   except im 15 and hes alot older


 
  What did your parents say and what did you do.

 

 my parents think hes only 17 so they dont really make a big thing out of it. i didnt tell him i was 15 until like after 2 weeks and we couldnt not be with eachother. my parents would flip out if they new he was 20.



Ya she didht tell me her age until I already feel for her. She wants me to tell her parents I am a year younger than I actually am, but I think they will find out and be furious.

girls just do that i guess. thats exactly what my boyfriend said. i would just do it and tell her parents ur a year younger just until she gets older and then be like whoops im 16.

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Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 9:09 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

my parents think hes only 17 so they dont really make a big thing out of it. i didnt tell him i was 15 until like after 2 weeks

Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:28 pm on Oct. 15, 2008


Ya she didht tell me her age until I already feel for her.


This, boys and girls, is how statutory rape occurs when unbeknown to the older person, or "rapist."

For the person in the first quote, if you truly cared about your boyfriend at all, you would have told him how old you were long before things got too involved.  Your omitting that information, or perhaps even lying, could potentially screw things up for your boyfriend quite a bit, whether you two have sex or not.

If there's anything these quotes should tell you, it's to make sure you know how old somebody is before you find yourself geting involved with them.  Perfectly fine people have wound up in jail and on the sex offender registry thanks to this kind of bullshit.


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Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 11:31 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:28 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 11:09 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from Steel Ebola at 9:03 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

Quote: from weezybabyx7 at 10:57 pm on Oct. 15, 2008

how bigs ur age gap? me n my boyfriend are 5 years apart. he could get in so much trouble.      

    i noe how you feel.    

    except im 15 and hes alot older


   
   What did your parents say and what did you do.

 

  my parents think hes only 17 so they dont really make a big thing out of it. i didnt tell him i was 15 until like after 2 weeks and we couldnt not be with eachother. my parents would flip out if they new he was 20.


 
 Ya she didht tell me her age until I already feel for her. She wants me to tell her parents I am a year younger than I actually am, but I think they will find out and be furious.

girls just do that i guess. thats exactly what my boyfriend said. i would just do it and tell her parents ur a year younger just until she gets older and then be like whoops im 16.



Evil but if she wasn't mature enough then she wouldn't of caught my interest in the first place. I thought of the lying until she turns 15 but I turn 17 the month after.

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