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Well, you could definately see why he would have a problem with it. I wouldn't make any decisions until you really talk to him. You said you want something meaningful. Try this. Put yourself in his position. Would you have a problem with it?

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As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am.

FP

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Come away, O human child!
To the waters and the wild
With a faery, hand in hand,
For the world's more full of weeping than you can understand.

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As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am.

FP

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I think thats what honestly lets pornographic actors have girlfriends and boyfriends and all that jazz.  By when must you make a decision?  Has this been a long dream of yours?

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Quote: from FurryPanther at 1:32 am on Sep. 26, 2008

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As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am.  

 FP

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I think thats what honestly lets pornographic actors have girlfriends and boyfriends and all that jazz. By when must you make a decision? Has this been a long dream of yours?

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Not a dream at all. More like an opportunity for a jump start.

FP

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Come away, O human child!
To the waters and the wild
With a faery, hand in hand,
For the world's more full of weeping than you can understand.

As far as doing porn in general goes, only you can decide if you want to do it. It could impact your future, yes. But given your desired career, I doubt anyone will care if their chef did porn at one point. You know? So I can't see this impacting future employment opportunities. There aren't really any careers for porn stars based on their history. Like if you want to get famous off of it, don't bother. I can count on one hand how many porn stars have become generally well known off of their career. You'd most likely gain fans and gain money, but not have too many people realize that you were in porn. Gay porn has an even smaller market than straight porn, so that's good if you're hoping most people won't notice in the future. You'd still get to go on and do whatever you want. I can't see any real negatives, honestly. I know your views of sex and this doesn't clash at all.

God, I'm being wordy today. Sorry. I know this potential relationship means a lot to you. And he could end up being fine with dating someone who does porn. It would depend on how he sees sex, more than likely. Can you call the scout and ask for time to think it over? Then that gives you a bit of time to talk to the guy and see how he feels about porn. I would mention it in general and see how he feels about porn stars. Most people are either fine with it or disgusted and I bet he'll reveal it in a conversation. Or this may rush things and mean you have to tell him about your feelings for him so you can make this decision about your life. Honestly, you won't get many chances like the one offered to you. So you are in a tight spot and have to know if there's a chance of him being interested in you.  And if he would ever date someone involved in the porn industry.

Sorry I couldn't be more specific. But a lot depends on the guy's reaction. And even then, if you mind the chance of being noticed as a porn actor by coworkers or maybe even employers. It's all up to you to decide if it's worth the risk.

I SAY DO IT THOUGH!

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kid, I wrote back,
all lovers betray.

FP

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Come away, O human child!
To the waters and the wild
With a faery, hand in hand,
For the world's more full of weeping than you can understand.