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( Anonymous )
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Hey, I suffer from a eating disorder...
(under) eating; and i really don't know what i should do...
like its been almost a year of "having self control" but now i realise my e.d took the self control back off me...
so now i have none.. thing is i really wanna tell my mum about my e.d and i wanna tell my friends...
but i never talk to my friends about anything that bothers me... :(
and well i hardly speak to my mum we aint like so close... i really want to get better...
ive tried my self but i fail..
i just dont know what to do anymore...
i dont know who to tell i cant go the doctors cause im scared to go alone... =(
and no friend will come with me.
cause they dont know
(apart from one friend who i hardly everrrrrrrr see)
(well since 2 yr ago!!) so yeah i need some serious advice please? cause im actually in tears cause im so scared... please help :'(
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Ashes To Ashes
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they only thing you can do is tell someone that you're really close to and go to a doctor. it's the only way you will get better.. whether by yourself or with a close loved one.
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You have nothing to fear but fear itself. . .And of course the Boogy Man.
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Isaias Arenas
Dairy Product Addict
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just eat
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Anonymous
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I use to take tums before I ate to help me from gagging.
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the seer
Dairy Product Addict
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eating disorders can evolve into real issues you need to see a doctor even if it is by yourself.
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those who martch in rank and file have my contempt
for they where given a brain by mistake when a spinal cord would suffice
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crazychica21
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hey. i think that u should tell your friends because if they are your friends they will help you and you should also tell your mom. i think that once you are comfortable with telling your friends that kind of stuff you should go to see a doctor. dont be scared of telling someone or asking for help because true friends will always help you no matter what and they wont judge.
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love*laugh*livelove jake forever 33
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paperskyx
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Quote: from Anonymous at 4:08 pm on Nov. 7, 2008
 Quote: from paperskyx at 12:05 am on Nov. 8, 2008
Hey there, eating disorders are hard to deal with, but your family and friends do care about you. It's a scary thing to deal with. You need to talk to your friends about this, and if they don't care, then they aren't real friends. You could also talk to a family member you trust the most, or a guidance counselor. Any of those people could help you through this and encourage you to stop under eating. Please don't starve yourself, I went through this as well, and it doesn't do any good. 
I CANT im really really scared to ask anyone for help :(
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and i dont know if telling my friends is wise... they might spread it about
Well if you don't trust your friends then you shouldn't tell them, and you shouldn't confide anything in them, either.
Do you have a school guidance counselor? I know it's hard, but she/he will take it seriously and keep it confidential and give you great advice and support. She/he will not judge you.
It is important for you to get help.
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I am now one point closer to ranking up.
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( Anonymous )
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Quote: from Anonymous at 12:10 am on Nov. 8, 2008
Quote: from FallingAwayFromMe at 12:06 am on Nov. 8, 2008
Just tell a couple of friends, and if they are true friends then they will do everything they can to help you through this, that includes taking you to the Dr's. Its good that you want help, accepting you have a problem is the first step. Why do you feel you can't tell your mum? or friends?
They may not fully understand, but they will support you through this, and that's what you need right now.
i guess im just scared...
but me and my mum are not close so im scared she wont care cause shes like that... n also im scared it might pull us furthur apart... cos i wud avoid her cause i dnt like talking about how i feel in person...
and my friends well cause they would thinks its either for attention or sum shit :( i dunno
i h8 this
No i do not have one.... my school has some staff that deal with all that but i cant talk to them i hate them and still do NOT trust them Post edited at 4:17 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 by Anonymous
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