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how do you ask a girl to get tested......??
Replies: 15Last Post Oct. 26, 2008 3:35pm by Amanda2774
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hello everyone

i have an issue, ive been recently dating this girl and i am starting to like her. Friends that went to the same school as her have told me she is a retired slut. She slept around and has had unprotected sex , although she has changed and is no longer a slut. So my problem is how do you ask a girl to get her self checked out? without being rude or ruining the relationship

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3:20 pm on Oct. 26, 2008
Spuddlesworth


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Use a condom?

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"BITCH you might have something let me take you to get tested"

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Go with her, get tested yourself.

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( Anonymous )

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Quote: from Spuddlesworth at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008

Use a condom?

there is till risk with condoms .......


3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008
grinzbie


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just be like "listen i think it would be good for both of us to get screened for STD's because im ready to take the next step with you"

Sounds corny but being honest and upfront is a good thing for subjects like this


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Quote: from akallen at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008

Go with her, get tested yourself.

agreed, be like i want to get tested, why don't you go with me.

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Now look, Im not getting some STD just because you cant be fucked to go and get checked. Now go and get some damn tests or I will test you myself with a razor and some bleach.


Do it something like that and you will be fine.

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tell her to get checked out just in case

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Quote: from akallen at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008

Go with her, get tested yourself.

Agreed.

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Be like hey, we should both go get tested.

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Quote: from Spuddlesworth at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008

Use a condom?
to the OP:

these do not always work. if she by chance has AIDS or HIV, it's much better to just ask her to get tested and make sure rather than just use a condom and risk catching it or anything like it yourself

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if you ask her, start it off with letting her know that your opinion of her has not changed (at least i'm guessing that that's true). ease it in and just let her know that you just want to be safe and know for sure.

if she says no cus she's too proud to do that for you, she's a girlfriend not worth having

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just be like "im gona go get tested, just to be safe. you should too."

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( Anonymous )

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yea and we almost had sex once but i kind of stopped at the last minute..lol

3:31 pm on Oct. 26, 2008
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