But i notice that this one girl at my college...well i Can't figure her out.  I've known of her since freshman year because we lived in the same dorm for 2 years.  We are now both Juniors, and she lives off campus in an apartment with her best friend.  When she was a freshman, she acted really immature and did stupid stuff with the girls on her same floor.  She even got her first boyfirned and seemed to get really serious with him (like he doesn't drink and it appears as though he kinda told her she isn't allowed to go out to parties)..

Appartmently she changed her major...and like her classes have always been easy but not she actually has work to do, like classes with her major.  And she always puts up facebook/IM messages like "I havve no life thanks to Physics!" and complains about everything....but I sit here and think about all the times when she was a freshman and fucked around by not doing any work, having easy classes, and now she is in the real world and has noooo idea what to do...  
That sounds pretty typical for college.

And as far as her friends go, she has in the past neglected people who are not in close distance with her (like old high school friends)....and so I don't think she is as good of friends with people becasuse they all live in different apartments now.  

I saw her best friend hanging out with this different group of people and I think "Wow, at least SHE had the thought to join a club or activity to meet people...."  Yet this girl, from what I observe, makes NO effort to make  other friends..

It's frustrating...and I'm just wondering if this is typical in college?  Or am I maing a big deal about it?